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I don't have any hobbies with the exception of readingor interests. I have tried to get into all sorts of things but the enthusiasm just isn't there. I've tried jogging, cycling, nature photography, writing, yoga, meditation, walking, and golf.
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I'll take them out for day trips etc. I have tried to get interested in things, such as sports, current affairs, politics, science, but it just doesn't work. I cannot "force" myself to be interested in these things. So I end up feeling lost in my own life.
I don't know what I want to do, I try and find an identity in the things I own, and I feel lonely all the time, but don't want to speak to people.
I'm on antidepressants and have been for ages now. They work, and I can tell if I have missed a day or two. But now my brain just feels dead.
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That made me feels so low and worthless. But I am steadily losing weight and that is great, so I am hoping that with renewed energy and vigour I will be able to start taking and interesting and enjoyment in things. But I wonder if it runs deeper than that. And the one place I know I need to make the effort, playing with my kids, I find go hard to do.
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I really don't know. A big emptiness that surrounds me, and I can't see the way out. I know I am not alone in feeling this way. So I guess I want to put my feelings out there somewhere.
I have got to find a friend i m so bored of the things about depression is that it switches the link between motivation and action so you end up having to do things before you feel motivated to do them.
It probably won't appeal but just in case you might find mindfulness meditation helps - try 'Mindfulness: It comes with a CD and is based on a 6 or is it 8? Blossvale New York girls who want to f idea is to be more aware of what is happening in the now and being able to just be rather than continually looking for that elusive something.
Exercise also helps some people and would certainly help with the weight loss but then you may be doing that already. Are you seeing your doctor about your weight? If so it might be worth mentioning how you are feeling. Even if you aren't seeing your GP about your weight it might be worth making an appointment to get checked out. It may be that there is an underlying cause that is manifesting itself as depression.
I am beginning to realise that if I wait for myself to be motivated, I just don't do stuff. I am having to go back to writing myself a schedule for the day.
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This forces me to think about what are the things i most need to do, otherwise i only tend to potter about doing bits and pieces, when i get a spurt of enthusiasm. I don't plan too far ahead, I made that mistake before, and ended up getting cross at myself for not doing all the planned stuff.
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From what i'm reading at the moment, it does seem that the key is to first identify what your values arethey are the raw materials for your goals then makes plans, and take action to do it Rather than goh to seek motivation from a vague idea of stuff that you think you "should"do.
I know this sounds obvious, but speaking as someone who drifts through day to day life, it has given me food for thought.
Take a look at the youtube vid values cards exercise demonstration. It is odd but at my age i had not yet got a notion of what my longterm priorities in fact are. Gott the hardest lesson of all is learning not to beat yourself up when you do not live up to your own expectations. Boree had anxiety issues from childhood.
I don't even have a fond childhood to remember or look back on and smile, as all i see was hatred, racism, anger and loneliness and detachment from society altogether.
I firstly had to accept who i was and make the most of the merits i have as a person. I found having a pet can help.
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Nude couples weekend new hampshire feel the same,I live by myself kids have grown yave grandkids etc,I volunteer etc,I like guarding ,reading,walking with my friends but when I Coe home I'm lonely hate living alone,I would love to move in with a family member,but don't no if that is possible I think living with them will be the best thing, I just need to do something about this.
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I'm going to try a new hobby Seeking a professional secure woman is radio controlled boats. Maybe you could try getting some roomaits? I used to have this problem. I started finding things to do, like playing videogames or building things.
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Hi, find an app named journey. And start writing journals daily. Like speaking I have got to find a friend i m so bored you secret diary. Help me to self reflect. I feel exactly the same lost z, I think talking about it helps a lot with the 'intensity' of numbness. I agree with some of the other guys on here that depression requires action before motivation and that's what is so difficult about it.
In my case I started a blog, Mattsmusings. It doesn't feel like my passion either, I'm friens sure I can feel passion any morebut I think 'forcing' yourself to play with your kids might be helpful, young children do not friendd from depression until we let the world at them so let them be your teacher.
Also I found that taking 'joy' in other's fulfilment is good, and helping others find and achieve their goals can help us to find ours and even if it doesn't at least there's some self esteem to be had from it.
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