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It isn't like a vegetable stand, where a man can say, "I'll take this onion here, not these others," and the onion has nothing to say about it. What we're talking about is, how do men pick out which women they are going to try for. Nor am I condoning, excusing or endorsing men's methods.

Interesting essays could be written on how men should choose women, or how men wish they chose women. But we will focus on a topic of more practical interest: We will take a clear-eyed look at that question, and maybe we will find that the truth has some redeeming qualities. The first thing we need to face about men is this: More accurately, they are loons.

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If you make it difficult to be seen -- for instance, if you sit in the back booth with shades on -- you stop Step One from happening. So none of the other steps can happen.

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What are they hoping to see? If you're feeling cynical, your answer may be, "Cameron Diaz. Men are, in the first place, looking for "attractive. Well, the good news is, it means completely different things to different men -- but Hot single guy wants real bad girl almost always involves a combination of face, and body shape and size.

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And some men don't really care that much about body size or shape. Then we have faces. Here there is even less consensus. No one agrees on faces.

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Ralph may hate a lot of makeup on a woman, while Shawn considers it a turn-on. There are no objective standards concerning faces. Even in the realm of extremely good-looking celebrities, you will find a whole gamut of opinions.

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Siingle say men and women are both designed to be ruthlessly pragmatic in their criteria for a mate. Women are programmed by evolution to choose men based on their father potential, which is closely associated with status in the group -- what we now call money and power. Men -- regardless of Suragate sexual friend conscious attitude to having kids--are designed to look for good reproducers; a low waist-to-hip ratio of Hot single guy wants real bad girl.

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Fortunately, many of them don't toe the evolutionary line anyway--apparently their wiring has come loose. Take faces, for example. It's clear that we read far more in a face than looks.

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What is a man doing when he looks you over? On some level, quite possibly unconscious, he or his genes are trying to decide, could this person be a lover or is she just a potential friend?

If the answer comes up "lover," his charm will probably kick in, and there will be a lot of twinkling eyes and banter and smiling read: Let's assume he finds you to be above some basic threshold of attractiveness -- what other factors come into play? Well, as odd as it may sound, you are being checked out in a number of ways to determine whether you are too intimidating. You are being studied to see whether you are likely to defeat him as a lover.

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